paddling
When a woman takes a big flat thing and slaps a man's butt with it until it looks like a cooked lobster. It's so embarrassing it might make him cry, but he'll still want more.
My dad got paddled by my mom for forgetting her birthday. He had purple marks for a week.
My brother's teacher paddled him for throwing a calculator at the principal. He cried like a baby.
My uncle got paddled by his wife for eating the last slice of pizza. He didn't even fight back.