haiqiang
A haiqiang is someone who acts like they don't want anything to do with you, but when you're sad, they're the first one to show up with snacks and a face full of fury at whatever made you cry.
"You're the only one who brings me pizza when I'm sad."
"You showed up at my house in the middle of the night just to yell at me for being a crybaby."
"You're the only one who knows my weird snack combos."