A way of life
That’s the way it is means you’re f***ed and there’s no way out. Life just kicks you in the gut and says, ‘Deal with it.’
My ex said, ‘That’s the way it is,’ and then blocked me and started dating my best friend.
My boss said, ‘That’s the way it is,’ and then gave me a raise I didn’t deserve.
My mom said, ‘That’s the way it is,’ and then made me eat lasagna for breakfast.