a smothering
A smothering is when your mom or girlfriend loves you so much she acts like she’s your mom, your therapist, and your food delivery person all at once.
My mom smothered me with love, food, and advice. I couldn’t breathe.
He got smothered by his girlfriend. She brought him soup, advice, and a new job.
My girlfriend smothered me with so much love I had to take a vacation.