pal'n around
modern dating hell. both people get what they want (attention, sex) but neither person gets security or clarity.
subreddit post describing the mental gymnastics of pal'n around: 'am i to him? am he to me?'
@dating_coach on tiktok breaking down how this dynamic keeps both parties trapped in limbo state
man posting online about his situation with a girl who won't leave him but also refuses to commit