pal'n around
hooking up without the commitment. fucking his girlfriend over her like she's not there while texting each other about how much you fuck.
girlfriend: u know i'm with mike but we still gotta hook up? me: damn right shit
reddit commenters discussing their friends being 'pal'n around' and the emotional manipulation involved
@femke_nasty: my ex was a paln, he'd sleep over 3x week, cook meals for me, then ghost me when i mentioned wanting labels