pajamadism
pajamadism is when a dude gets off on just holding your bare ass. He's not gonna fuck you but he'll stroke himself watching.
Girl: U wanna get some? Boy: Naa, let me snuggle first. Girl laughs and lets him. 15 mins later she's bored.
He keeps his hand between my thighs but refuses to pull out for sex
Sent a pic of her sleeping. Captioned 'come over just to hold u'. He shows up with nothing on.