pain-popping
A pain-popping is when someone says something so stupid and rude that it makes you want to punch them in the face and cry at the same time.
My mom said I failed math because I didn't study. I studied for 10 hours. She's a pain-popper.
My crush told me he only dates girls who are rich. I'm broke, so I'm a pain-popper now.
My teacher called my essay 'the worst thing I've ever read.' That was a pain-popping.