occupational hazard
An occupational hazard is when your job or hobby makes you suffer. It’s not a choice. It’s a slap in the face.
I work in customer service and get yelled at by people who think they’re the boss. I just want to scream and leave.
I got a burn from a coffee cup that was hot enough to melt my soul. That’s not a hazard. That’s a war crime.
My hobby is cleaning up after people. Now I have to clean up after my own mess. That’s not a hobby. That’s a nightmare.