obtractivism
when you're so close to someone else’s drama, you feel like you're being pulled into their mess like they're your new best friend and you're stuck in their chaotic life
My friend’s obtractivism was so strong, I felt like I was being pulled into her mess and her terrible dating life.
He had the worst obtractivism, I ended up getting dragged into his failed business and his failed relationship.
That kid in class had such a strong obtractivism, I was pulled into his drama and his even worse life choices.