Obsessive Compulsive Disorder by Proxy
You need people to do things you don't even want. If they don't do it, you get angry and make them do it until you're happy and they're ready to cry.
'I don't need you to clean my room. But I will make you do it 10 times if you don't.'
'You didn't put the laundry in the right drawer. I'm gonna make you do it again and again.'
'You didn't text me the way I wanted. I'm gonna make you text me 20 times.'