Obligent
A punishment disguised as a favor. You do it because you're too scared to say no.
Going to my sister's wedding was an obligation. She cried for three days and I felt guilty for the rest of my life.
Doing my math homework for my brother was an obligation. He called me a lazy bastard and I didn't even do it right.
Going to the family reunion was an obligation. I was stuck with my uncle for six hours and he kept telling me about his weird dog.
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