macho cuddly
a guy who has some meat on his bones but still lets you snuggle him without making you feel like you're being squeezed by a meat locker
He flexes at the gym, but when he cuddles me, I feel like I'm hugging a pillow.
He's got biceps, but they're not so big they make me feel like I'm in a wrestling match.
He's like a beefy teddy bear, you can still snuggle him without getting a broken rib.