labreque - A man who had a big tool but now uses it like a pencil. All

A man who had a big tool but now uses it like a pencil. All because of pressure or a girlfriend who likes subtlety.

'He used to shout in the bedroom. Now he whispers.'

'He still has the meat, but now he’s the guy who brings the coffee.'

'He tried to be cool. Now he’s just average.'