Kaelan
Let's not make a word soup. Being a Kaelan is complicated, no matter the gender or sex. If you're a guy, you'll get made fun of for having a girl's name, if you're a girl, then vice versa. And the mispronunciations will run rampant. If you're a Kaelan, be prepared for whatever comes your way.
Why is everyone laughing at me? I just said my name is Kaelan.
My name is Kaelan. I am not a girl. I am not a boy. I am a legend.
My name is Kaelan. You say it wrong. I don't care. I'm a god.