J bushed
A buddy who always promises to be there but then gets distracted by a wedding or a girlfriend and vanishes like a fart in a hurricane.
You: 'We're going to the concert!' Him: 'See you there!' Later: 'My girlfriend's in labor.'
You: 'Let's eat!' Him: 'I'll be there in 10!' Later: 'I'm at my sister's wedding.'
You: 'We're doing this tonight!' Him: 'I'll be there!' Later: 'I got whipped.'