haggard old lady
A woman who looks like she’s been through a war and lost, and then forgotten about it, because she’s been up all night arguing with her toaster.
My mom is a haggard old lady who argues with her toaster like it’s her ex.
The lady at the coffee shop looked like a haggard old lady who had just been tortured by a blender.
My grandma is a haggard old lady who still texts me about her ex’s new girlfriend.