fadder
A fadder is like a fake dad who protects you but also humiliates you in front of your friends. They will make you do stupid stuff and they will yell at you if you don’t do it.
My fadder made me sing in front of the whole class. I was so embarrassed.
They told me to do a dance and I had to wear a hat. It was humiliating.
My fadder made me do a stupid task and I got in trouble.