A hard head makes a soft ass
A hard head makes a soft ass is when someone won't take advice and ends up getting their ass kicked.
My brother won't take advice. He's gonna get his ass kicked. A hard head makes a soft ass.
My friend is too dumb to listen. He's gonna be the joke. A hard head makes a soft ass.
My kid is too stubborn to take advice. He's gonna get knocked around. A hard head makes a soft ass.