a friend of mara
A friend of Mara is a code word for a gay person who likes to use fancy words. It comes from She-Ra and it's used in the fandom like a secret handshake.
At the concert, my friend said, "Are you a friend of Mara?" I said, "No, I'm a friend of the stage." She said, "That's just a fag disguise."
My friend said, "You're a friend of Mara, right?" I said, "No, I'm a friend of the band." He said, "That's just a lie."
My mom said, "You're a friend of Mara, aren't you?" I said, "No, I'm a friend of the music." She said, "That's just a fag excuse."