a cry for help
You make a joke about something really sad, like being lonely, wanting to die, or having zero friends. You hope someone gets it.
I said, 'I'm so lonely I could die,' and it was a cry for help.
I joked, 'I want to commit suicide,' and it was a cry for help.
I said, 'I have no friends and no life,' and it was a cry for help.
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