a big ask
A big ask is when someone tries to make you do something and it feels like they’re asking for your firstborn. It’s like they want everything and they’re not even polite about it.
My boss said, 'A big ask today, but it’s for the team!' I said, 'It’s for the team, or it’s for my sanity?'
My friend said, 'A big ask, but it’s for a good cause!' I said, 'Good cause? I’m not sure if I can do this.'
My mom said, 'A big ask, but it’s for your future!' I said, 'My future is looking very tired right now.'